
Finding the perfect chain length: Your personal guide
Determining the perfect chain length – more than just a thumb
Hand on heart: How many times have you stood in front of the mirror, put on a new necklace and thought: "Hmm, it's somehow strange"? Or were you online, totally in love with a design, but the length information – 42 cm, 45 cm, 50 cm – left you at a loss? I know that all too well. The search for the correct chain length is sometimes like looking for a needle in a haystack.
The length is so incredibly important! It decides whether a chain makes your outfit shine or is more likely to be overlooked. Whether it flatters your face or draws the eye in an unflattering way. And quite banally: whether it even feels good to wear. Nothing is more annoying than a chain that keeps pinching or getting tangled in your sweater, right?
I don't want to give you a stiff lecture here, but rather give you my observations and a few solid tips that have helped me (and many friends) to avoid bad purchases and really Chain length to choosethat fits. Because in the end it's about you feeling comfortable with your jewelry and it underlining your personality.
First of all, orientation: What do the lengths actually mean?
There are a few common lengths that come up again and again. These are a good starting point, but remember: How a necklace *really* falls on you depends on your neck size, your height, and even your posture. So these are more like practical guidelines.
Very close: Short chains (approx. 35 - 40 cm)
These super short things, often Chokers called, are really tight on the neck. Sometimes right at the base of the neck, sometimes a little bit deeper. I think they can look incredibly cool and modern, almost a bit edgy.
We remember the choker trend in the '90s - velvet ribbons, mostly. Today the designs are much more diverse, from delicate gold chains to wider statement pieces.
Where do they look good? Definitely with anything that leaves the neck area exposed: Carmen necklines, deeper Vs, off-the-shoulder tops. They draw total attention to the face and neck. But be careful: they have to fit *really* well. If you have a stronger neck, be sure to measure beforehand (I'll show you how later), otherwise it will quickly feel uncomfortable. A good choker shouldn't choke you!
The all-rounder: medium-length chains (approx. 42 - 50 cm)
This is the area in which most of the chains you see every day are located. Especially those 45 cm length (Princess length) is a real classic. Why? Because for most women it lands right on or just below the collarbone.
That's a great position, I think. She is present but not intrusive. Perfect if you have a pendant that you want to show off - it usually sits nicely in the middle of the upper décolleté. And best of all, this length goes with almost everything! T-shirt with a round neck, blouse with a V-neck, even with a slightly fancier dress. If you are unsure or are looking for a gift, a 45 cm chain is often a safe bet.
There are of course nuances within this range: 42 cm is a little higher, 50 cm is a little lower. Then again it depends on your body type and the specific neckline.
Looking down: Long chains (approx. 50 - 65 cm)
From around 50 cm, sometimes too Matinee length called, the chain moves significantly towards the chest area. These lengths often have a stretching effect, which many women like. They draw the eye downward and can create a nice vertical line.
When do I like to wear lengths like this? Over a turtleneck sweater in winter - otherwise hardly any jewelry comes into its own. Or over a high-necked silk blouse in the office. They often appear a little more grown-up and elegant than shorter chains. But they can also work with a deeper neckline if they end clearly below the lowest point of the neckline. A 55 or 60 chain can look great.
We think these lengths are also great for layering, i.e. when you wear several necklaces on top of each other. A matinee chain is often a good basis for this.
The statement: Very long chains (from approx. 70 cm)
For me, anything over 65-70 cm falls into the “statement” category. These are them Opera lengths (up to approx. 90 cm) or the very long ones Rope chains. They can reach to the waist or even lower.
Sure, this isn't for everyone and not for every day. But such long chains can be incredibly effective! Imagine a simple black sheath dress with a long, perhaps sparkly chain over it. That's something! Or casually over an oversized knitted sweater.
The great thing about these lengths is their versatility. You can just wear them long. You can double them up for a double-breasted look in a shorter length. Some (lariat necklaces without clasps) can even be knotted artfully. There is a lot of scope for creativity here.

Okay, but which length is right for ME?
The standard lengths are one thing. But how do you find them? correct chain length for you personally? A few things play a role:
Your stature – size and proportions
This is probably the most obvious point. Are you rather petite and small? Then extremely long chains can visually “kill” you. Lengths up to the matinee position (approx. 60 cm) often appear most harmonious. Are you tall? Then you can also wear the long opera or rope lengths, which emphasize your size. With a medium size, most things usually fit – lucky you!
But it's not just about height. The neck also plays a role. Do you have a rather short, strong neck? Then a very tight choker might not be the most comfortable or flattering choice. A slightly longer choker (40 cm) or a princess length (42-45 cm) could fit better. On the other hand, if you have a long, slim neck, a very tight choker often looks great.
And bust size can also affect how a necklace falls, especially for lengths that end on the chest area. Often the only thing that helps is trying things out or looking closely in the mirror.
Your face – yes, that plays into it too!
It's hard to believe, but the length of the chain can influence the appearance of your face. This isn't an exact science, but it's a nice observation:
- Rather round faces often benefit from longer chains (Matinee, Opera). The vertical line visually stretches. V-shaped pendants reinforce this.
- At heart-shaped faces (wider at the top, chin narrower), shorter chains (choker, princess) can create a nice balance as they emphasize the area below the chin.
- Square faces sometimes appear softer with rounder shapes and medium lengths.
- Who a oval face has a free choice - almost everything fits.
But honestly? I wouldn't let it drive me crazy. If you love a certain style, wear it! These are just suggestions, not hard and fast rules.
The neckline – your most important styling partner!
For me, this is the most crucial point in everyday life. The chain must match the neckline, otherwise it will quickly look restless or out of place. Here are my "rules of thumb":
- Round neck (T-shirt, sweater): Either short enough that the chain lies clearly on the fabric or just above it (approx. 40-45 cm), OR long enough that it ends well below the neckline (from approx. 50-55 cm). Everything in between, which hangs exactly on the edge, is usually difficult.
- V-neck: Here I love chains that pick up the V. A 45 or 50 chain, depending on the depth of the V, often with a pendant that sits nicely in a triangle. That just looks right.
- Submarine / Carmen: Since the neckline is so wide and horizontal, I love vertical contrast. So either a tight choker or a longer chain (Matinee, Opera).
- Turtleneck: No question – long chains are needed here! Everything else disappears. From 50 cm upwards, often really long.
- Shirt blouse: If you leave the top buttons open, a 45 chain often fits perfectly into the small "neckline". If you wear it high-necked, you can either put a long chain over it or wear a very short one (choker) under the collar - sometimes it looks cool too.
- Strapless/Heart: There's a lot of skin visible, almost everything fits! Chokers emphasize the shoulders, princess lengths look elegant. Here you can let off steam.
The principle is actually always: The chain needs its own space. Either clear on the skin, clear on the fabric, or it harmoniously follows the line of the neckline.
The style of the necklace itself & the occasion
Of course it also depends on the chain itself. A delicate gold chain needs a different length than a bold statement necklace. And you might choose something different for the office than for the weekend party.
- Filigree pendants: They should be seen. The Princess length (45 cm) is often ideal because the pendant sits nicely in the field of vision.
- Eye-catching statement chains: Here it depends on the design. Some look best when worn short, others need length so as not to be too bulky.
- Layering look: If you want to wear multiple necklaces, you definitely need different lengths. Otherwise it looks chaotic. A good combination is often: 40 cm + 45 cm + 50/55 cm. It is important that they do not constantly get tangled.
- Everyday life vs. event: At work, the classic, uncomplicated lengths (45-55 cm) may be more in demand. In the evening it can sparkle and attract attention - regardless of whether it's super short or super long.
This is how you find your measurements (don't worry, it's easy!)
Enough of the theory. How do you practically find out which centimeter measurement is right for you?
- The favorite chain as a benchmark: Do you have a chain that fits perfectly? Super! Lay it flat and measure the total length (from clasp end to clasp end) with a ruler or tape measure. This is your gold standard!
- Tape measure check in the mirror: Use a flexible tape measure (like when sewing). Place it loosely around your neck, exactly the way you want the necklace to fall. Look in the mirror: Do you like the position? Does it fit the intended section? Then read off the centimeters.
- The string trick: No tape measure at hand? Take a thread, a gift ribbon bow, even a thin charging cable works. Place it around your neck, marking where the ends meet or where it is the right length. Then lay the string straight and measure the marked distance with a ruler. Works great!
- Don't forget the trailer: Remember that a pendant visually lengthens the chain. So if it says "45 cm" but the chain has a 3 cm long pendant, the lowest point ends at around 48 cm. This is important to know!
Conclusion: Trust your feeling (and a bit of the tips here)
Phew, that was a lot of input correct chain length, right? But I hope it helped you get a better sense of what's important. It is not an exact science, but rather a mixture of knowledge, observation and - most importantly - your personal taste.
Use the standard lengths as a rough guide. Think about what type of clothing you usually wear. Look at yourself in the mirror, maybe with a tape measure or a piece of string. And then? Then decide what you like and what makes you feel comfortable!
Because at the end of the day, jewelry should be fun. It should make you shine and underline your style. And when you have found the length that suits you, it does exactly that. So, dare, try it out and find your perfect chain lengths!

